In between Women

Hmm…, let's see here, how many women have known guys that have bounced you around like a ball? Perhaps, this generation is officially infected with the "I just want to chill or vibe" bug. Let's see, you give time and energy to only receive no calls or text. Per se, a few pet names tagged in a text will do, but when will a stand be taken against the social influence of such degrading behavior? Since, I am a woman, I am analyzing from a woman's perspective; no offense guys, because there are some of you that really mean well. However, in this instance, I have come across the "I just want to chill factor." Chill- I want to have sex with you with no strings attach. Learning the definitions of these statements is viral. It is important to know that our moral receptive have been condensed to accept the lack of self-respect that we tolerate from the opposing gender. When this verbal agreement is made, you are exposing yourself, to heartache, STD's, and lack of self-respect. I say this because the innuendo only regulates the fact that you are a play-thing and he has no other means for you, until he's ready to pull you out of his toy chest once he's tired of the other puppet, who perhaps just maybe the actual misses. Something to think about, eh..? UNFORTUNATELY, FOR YOU, HE'S IN BETWEEN WOMEN. This is where we ladies should take a stand. Know your self-worth. Stop playing the fool and become someone that can't be taken advantage of. Don't get me wrong, it's not easy to see all the time. I mean we have the guys that are so slithery that whatever poison he spits, we're too immune to feel the toxin; we're harmed once the venom has reached the highest level of octane. Society has projected this "lets chill" theory as a more approachable lifestyle to suit the needs of those who want to go against the godly approach to a more biblical living. You make the choice, but know when to look for signals of a man who uses you to be in between women. He's confused ladies, and don't make yourself available to someone who never planned to make you a top priority, but a lesser value. "I Leave You With This"- Cynthia Corbett