So we're in 2011, the economy is messed up, expenses are increasing, jobs are limited, children are needy and it's our jobs as parents to provide. So, what happens, when a child support court order is rendered and the non-custodial parent is ordered to pay his dues and instead he thinks calling and giving a sob story should generate financial support from crocodile tears? Apparently, this is becoming a wide-spread epidemic for men who were babied entirely too much by their mothers. They feel no sense of responsibility and expect the rest of the world to embrace them the same. Let's look at a main factor here: it takes money to raise a child. Argument: "Money isn't important, its love that is more important." Rebuttal: WTF? Okay, granted, love is important, but haven't we all heard the saying… "Love gives me such a thrill/ but your love/ don't pay my bills/ I need money/ that's what I want…?" Some men try to tie in personal feelings rather than thinking about the child's well being; therefore, they result to saying "you just want money from me." So, the mother struggles with buying baby food, clothes, transportation, paying educational fees, all because your thought process is of a ghetto mentality, the whole idea of "I'm not going to give a woman money for my child, let her do it, if she feels it's important; heck, as long as I call my child or see him or her, that's better than helping out financially." Blog readers, these are actual male responses and it is a crime shame! It is appalling to know that folks tend to excuse themselves out of anything in regards to taking care of the beautiful earthlings they implanted in someone else. It takes two to make a baby, so, it should take two to equally support the child with love, financial assistance, and a healthy living arrangement. Phone calls should NOT take the place of Child Support. What is the definition of Child Support?
Answer: Function: noun
: payment made for the support of the children of divorced or separated parents while the children are minors or until they reach an age set by the separation agreement or in a court order (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/Child+Support). Notably, men are often upset by the word Child Support. Is it because bad seeds have been implanted in their heads by other women, per se their own mothers or other men who have had bad experiences dealing with "baby mama drama" and decide to utilize those negative teachings to not pay child support? Whatever the reasons are, it is NOT okay to NOT support your children and this goes for women too! However, another topic will discuss trifling women who have children and the fathers of those babies DO pay child support or may not be court ordered, but does what is right and they "dog" them out. That topic is the next focus (blog). Conclusively, a Phone Call here and there, doesn't take the place of your legal obligatory to pay your child support. Remember, there's a God who sits up high and looks down low. "I leave you with this." –Cynthia Corbett
Answer: Function: noun
: payment made for the support of the children of divorced or separated parents while the children are minors or until they reach an age set by the separation agreement or in a court order (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/Child+Support). Notably, men are often upset by the word Child Support. Is it because bad seeds have been implanted in their heads by other women, per se their own mothers or other men who have had bad experiences dealing with "baby mama drama" and decide to utilize those negative teachings to not pay child support? Whatever the reasons are, it is NOT okay to NOT support your children and this goes for women too! However, another topic will discuss trifling women who have children and the fathers of those babies DO pay child support or may not be court ordered, but does what is right and they "dog" them out. That topic is the next focus (blog). Conclusively, a Phone Call here and there, doesn't take the place of your legal obligatory to pay your child support. Remember, there's a God who sits up high and looks down low. "I leave you with this." –Cynthia Corbett
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